wife got an 8mm kidney stone removed on friday.
so what had done happened wuz the stone, because it was so large, got lodged into the urethral tube wall and dug in causing an infection pocket where it chilled for god knows how long.
here's a picture:
after its removal, they left in a stent - a surgical tube that goes from the bladder to the kidneys - for a month to allow natural healing. we're on day three.
overall, she feels much much better. there's still the up and down from the normal overall issue, but that's to be expected.
additionally, her family never reached out to me or her the day of the extraction to check on how she's doing. we have opted to not answer. it's petty, yes, but the family wasted zero time to congratulate her brother and his wife to celebrate their second child in less than two years.
they talk some good shit on facebook regarding family and being blessed and their children/grandchildren and foreign exchange students and all that.
however, when we are at their house in person, 4 states/500 miles away, get either of them into a one-on-one situation, they act as if wife and i did not exist. instead of talking and acknowledging we're there, it's time to dick off on facebook or zone out into the tv.
so it's whatever at this point.
[e: 2:36pm]
her mother just now reached out to check on her. not two days ago. not leading up to. neat.
[e: 2:49pm]
wife responded saying she was hurt no one reached out. her mother immediately responded saying she expected a phone call the day of and she's been thinking of her. thoughts and prayers.
thank god i'm on antidepressants lmao
have some music:
tonight is the last night of 2023. thank god.
so what had done happened wuz the stone, because it was so large, got lodged into the urethral tube wall and dug in causing an infection pocket where it chilled for god knows how long.
here's a picture:
after its removal, they left in a stent - a surgical tube that goes from the bladder to the kidneys - for a month to allow natural healing. we're on day three.
overall, she feels much much better. there's still the up and down from the normal overall issue, but that's to be expected.
additionally, her family never reached out to me or her the day of the extraction to check on how she's doing. we have opted to not answer. it's petty, yes, but the family wasted zero time to congratulate her brother and his wife to celebrate their second child in less than two years.
they talk some good shit on facebook regarding family and being blessed and their children/grandchildren and foreign exchange students and all that.
however, when we are at their house in person, 4 states/500 miles away, get either of them into a one-on-one situation, they act as if wife and i did not exist. instead of talking and acknowledging we're there, it's time to dick off on facebook or zone out into the tv.
so it's whatever at this point.
[e: 2:36pm]
her mother just now reached out to check on her. not two days ago. not leading up to. neat.
[e: 2:49pm]
wife responded saying she was hurt no one reached out. her mother immediately responded saying she expected a phone call the day of and she's been thinking of her. thoughts and prayers.
thank god i'm on antidepressants lmao
have some music:
tonight is the last night of 2023. thank god.
